The Connection Project

Are you up for a chat?

I challenged myself to at least 2025 minutes of mini-connections in 2025. It was so fun and interesting I’ve decided to keep going!

Want to be part of the fun?

Welcome! I’m Lorine, and I have a not-so-secret love affair with nurturing human connection. I love learning about and supporting other people through conversation. I’m also a big time introvert, and often find myself hunkering down into my blanket laden cocoon instead of reaching out and sharing those moments of connection myself.

On December 30, 2024, I was in the watery wonder that is a shower and was struck by a realization.

“Lori, it’s time to emerge. In 2025, you are going to create daily mini-connections because while alone time recharges you, too much of it is hurting your physical and mental health. Lori, in 2025 you are going to have a daily connection with 365 different people.”

”Um… excuse me, self?”

”You heard me! Now let’s figure it out!”

And so here we are! But where exactly is that?

Person with glasses and a maroon jacket, with text "Please???"

The Basics

Why are you doing this?

Why not? In a world that often feels busy, disconnected, and flooded with AI, I want to invite and focus on meaningful, memorable human moments. Human connections are an oft overlooked and undervalued part of physical and mental health. I’m hoping our mini-connections inspire “connection ripples” way beyond our time together.

What is this?

The 2025 Connection Project started as a personal challenge to have 10-15 minute intentional conversations with 365 different people throughout the year 2025. I didn’t quite make it to one a day, but I had over 5000 minutes of connected conversation! So I’ve decided to keep going because…why not? If you’re local or we’re in the same area, we can even meet up in person.

How will this work?

We’ll chat for a few minutes—about life, favorite things, or anything fun or meaningful. There aren’t a lot of rules here. I’ll bring a question or two to keep it interesting. It’s that simple!

There’s no pressure and no hidden agenda. This is purely for fun and sharing a few minutes of connection with people who share my playfulness and curiosity. Is that you?

What this IS:

  • A personal passion project to spark meaningful, authentic human connection

  • An invitation for a one-on-one intentional, consensual conversation (I ask for 10-15 minutes) with no real agenda

  • An opportunity to share a few moments of presence, silliness, joy, or reflection

  • For anyone—no special status, background, or experience needed and all ages welcome

  • A chance to pause, connect, and be human together- no pressure and no unspoken expectations

What this is NOT:

  • A sales pitch, “investment opportunity”, networking scheme, or high pressure anything

  • A coaching or therapy session

  • A podcast or interview—nothing will be recorded and what we talk about won’t be shared

  • A performance—you don’t have to “bring” anything but yourself and your sense of curiosity (no prep work or homework!)

  • About fixing, judging, or advising—it’s about listening and being present with another human “just because”

I talked with Jenni Thomas all about my project on the Turtle Optimist podcast in early 2025. Give it a watch for a better sense of my project and me!

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